
Can’t stop spiraling every time you have to make a career decision?
You’re not the only one.
According to LinkedIn, 67% of professionals say fear of making the wrong move holds them back, even when they know their current path isn’t working.
It’s easy to fall into the what-ifs. What if I choose wrong? What if I regret it? What if I waste time or money? What if I disappoint people?
This guide will show you how to stop the spin and how to make career decisions with more clarity and less second-guessing.
Let’s clear the mental clutter, and help you move forward with confidence.
Why Career Decision-Making Feels So Hard
Fear of judgment or failure can freeze even the smartest people. Many of us grew up thinking career choices are permanent—and that we only get one shot to get it right. When you’ve been taught to follow other people’s rules, trusting yourself can feel risky.
Another issue? Too many options. Decision fatigue is real. When every possibility feels equally confusing, it's easier to do nothing than risk choosing wrong.
There’s also the trap of waiting. Waiting for the perfect job posting, waiting until you're 100% sure, waiting for more confidence. But most of the clarity you want won’t come before the decision—it comes after you move.
Most of us weren’t taught to check in with our own values, body cues, or long-term patterns. We were taught to follow the steps, please others, and keep climbing.
That stops here.
5-Step Framework to Make Career Decisions With Confidence
1. Define what success actually looks like to you
Don’t start with job titles. Start with what a good life feels like.
Write out your ideal day. Not just your ideal job.
Do you want quiet mornings? Autonomy? Collaboration? Mentorship? Flexibility to travel?
Success isn’t just salary or status. It’s alignment. Use this to set your decision-making filter.
2. Identify your non-negotiables
Separate the nice-to-haves from the must-haves.
Is salary top priority? Or is it meaning, remote work, growth, a safe team culture?
Write down your top five non-negotiables. Then review every option against that list. You’ll cut through the noise faster.
3. Narrow your options to 2 or 3
If you're choosing between ten paths, you're not choosing.
Limit yourself. If an option doesn’t match your values, Sparketype, or energizers, it’s off the list.
You can only compare clearly when the options are specific.
4. Use the "next right step" filter
Don’t ask, "What’s my 10-year career plan?"
Ask: "What’s the next right step that moves me forward, even a little?"
One client wanted to shift from healthcare to writing. But she froze every time she thought about quitting her job. We re-centered her goal: just try freelance writing once. That step led to the next. That’s how change works.
5. Gut-check it
Ask: "If I say yes to this, what am I saying no to?"
Then pause.
Do you feel calm or tense? Does your body lean in or shrink back?
Your body knows before your brain does. Gut checks aren’t emotional reactions, they’re pattern detectors.
Tools to Break Through Career Overthinking
Sometimes your brain needs a structure to cut the spin. Try these:
- Take the Career Assessment to reconnect to your core work drive
- Journal 3 energizing moments after work for one week
- Do a 24-hour decision freeze: no Googling, no advice-seeking
- Use a decision matrix: weigh your options by importance
- Talk it out with a coach or mentor, not your anxious coworker
Want more structure? The Career Clarity Formula walks you through exactly how to sort options, test alignment, and take action without spinning in circles.
How to Know If It’s the Right Career Decision
The right choice doesn’t always feel exciting. Sometimes it just feels steady. Calm. Like a deep exhale.
You’ll know it’s right when it lines up with your values and your future goals. When you’re not forcing yourself to ignore obvious red flags. And when you’re making the decision from what you do know—not what you fear.
If you feel more clear than confused, even with some nerves, it’s probably a good move.
Here are better markers:
- You feel grounded, not panicked
- It aligns with your long-term values
- You’re not ignoring obvious red flags
- You’re acting on what you know, not what you fear
The "right" decision isn't perfect. It's honest.
FAQs: How to Make Career Decisions
What if I regret my decision later?
Regret usually comes from staying stuck, not from trying. Every decision gives you data. And clarity. Even a misstep teaches you what doesn't fit, which brings you closer to what does.
What if I don’t feel "ready" to decide?
You probably won’t. Most clarity comes after action, not before. Pick a small decision you can make this week. That momentum creates readiness.
Can a career coach help me decide?
Yes, especially if you're looping. Coaches help you name your values, see blind spots, and shift from thinking to choosing. This blog breaks down how.
Should I wait until I have more experience?
Sometimes waiting is just fear dressed up as logic. Ask yourself: Am I waiting for something real, or am I waiting to feel perfect?
What if I’m choosing between two good options?
That’s a great problem. Choose the one that fits your current values and energizers, not the one that looks better on LinkedIn.
About Career Coach and Author
Theresa White, Career Clarity Expert, 5x Certified Career Coach, and the Founder of Career Bloom, is known for her expertise in guiding people to get unstuck and find the direction they need to move forward in their careers—fast. In a time when so many people are re-evaluating their work, Theresa offers actionable insights that empower clients to identify their true strengths and pursue work that genuinely aligns with their goals.
Theresa’s clients often call her sessions “epiphanies” and “transformational.” She brings immediate clarity to career goals, helping people unlock a deep understanding of what makes work fulfilling for them. Past participants consistently describe her approach as “spot on” and an “answer to questions they’d been asking for weeks.”
Theresa’s approach is empathetic yet practical, and she’s known for empowering clients with a clear direction in as little as 30 days, guaranteeing results.
Connect with Theresa on LinkedIn, listen to the Career Clarity Unlocked Podcast, or schedule your free 30-minute career clarity consultation.
You Already Know More Than You Think
You don’t need another podcast or poll.
You need one clear yes.
This isn’t about knowing every outcome.
It’s about making the next aligned move and trusting you’ll keep adjusting along the way.
The real failure? Staying in overthinking mode so long you forget what you want.
So try this:
- Define what success means to you
- Name your non-negotiables
- Take one imperfect but clear step
And trust that clarity will meet you on the other side.
Need a partner to help you sort it all out? Book a free session or start with the Career Clarity Formula.
You already have what you need to choose. Now choose it.
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